emma
@emma
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Let’s be honest, some people (not just girls) cheat because they’re trying to fill a void. Loneliness, validation, insecurity, or just chasing attention. It’s not an excuse, but that’s the reality for many. Emotional gaps are real.
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Not when you have all the answers, but when you stop pretending.’ Whew! That’s me. I used to pretend I was ‘booked and busy’ just to avoid sitting with myself. Now I’m okay with not having a 5-year plan. Purpose is unfolding.
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I love this topic. I’m in that space where I’m building a life that reflects who I really am, and I’ve realized that not everyone I once dated could come with me on that journey. Knowing my purpose helped me raise my standards — in love and in life. 💫
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One sign of anxiety for me is overthinking. I find myself replaying conversations or imagining worst-case scenarios, even when there’s no reason to.
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Therapy helped me unpack a lot of the negative self-talk I had. It’s been challenging, but I’ve found ways to replace those thoughts with more supportive ones.
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I think being proactive is key. I introduced myself to classmates and asked them about their interests. It’s surprising how many people are willing to chat if you take the first step.
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One thing I value in friendships is feeling safe to be myself. When friends encourage each other’s uniqueness without any pressure to change, it builds confidence and makes the bond stronger.
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I noticed a pattern of manipulation in one of my friendships. Whenever I would disagree, they would turn it into a huge fight. I ended things after a particularly nasty argument, and it was the right choice.
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Sometimes I feel pressured to do things just because my friends are, but I remind myself that I don’t need to change who I am to fit in. Real connections are about acceptance, not conformity.
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I try to integrate my social life with academics. For instance, if I have a group project, I invite my friends to work on it together. It keeps things fun and productive!
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I used to be really hard on myself about how I looked. Now, I avoid comparing myself to others and focus on the things I like about myself, even if they’re small. Celebrating these little things has improved my confidence.
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I used to feel down seeing people with ‘ideal’ bodies online. I realized it was affecting my mental health, so I started unfollowing accounts that made me feel insecure. Focusing on my strengths and things I’m grateful for helps me to not dwell on appearance.
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Friendship conflicts are hard, especially in school where you see the person every day. I’ve learned that it’s okay to set boundaries when needed. Not every conflict has to end the friendship, but it’s important to stand up for yourself if you feel disrespected.
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I’ve always struggled with feeling like I’m not enough, but one thing that helped was surrounding myself with supportive people. I also started journaling about my strengths and accomplishments, which reminded me of how capable I am.
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Evelyn, this is the kind of wisdom that needs to be on billboards. You make healing feel possible. I’m learning not to rush things anymore. 🙏
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